THE SCHOOL QUESTION

A COURSE FOR FAMILIES NAVIGATING SCHOOL FIT,
NEURODIVERSITY, AND SUSTAINABLE EDUCATIONAL PATHS.

There often comes a point when families begin asking a difficult but important question: Is school actually working for my child?

Not because of one bad day — but because, over time, something feels misaligned.

The School Question was created to support families in making sense of those moments with clarity rather than urgency, and understanding rather than pressure.

WHO THIS COURSE IS FOR

This course may be helpful if you are a caregiver who is:

  • Questioning whether your child’s school environment is a good fit

  • Navigating ongoing stress, dysregulation, or school-related burnout

  • Trying to advocate effectively without escalating conflict

  • Considering changes while feeling unsure how to think through options

  • Wanting language, frameworks, and perspective — not quick answers

The course was designed with the highly sensitive nervous systems that many PDA autistic children and teens navigate the world with in mind.

PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) refers to a nervous-system profile where everyday expectations can feel overwhelming, making traditional school environments especially hard to sustain.

At the same time, many families who are questioning school fit — even without a PDA or autism profile — find themselves facing very similar challenges and benefiting from the same clarity, language, and advocacy tools offered in this course.

THE SCHOOL QUESTION PROVIDES

  • Big-picture frameworks for understanding school fit beyond academics

  • Insight into how nervous systems interact with learning environments

  • Language to support thoughtful, grounded advocacy with schools

  • Practical tools and resources to help families assess next steps

  • A structured way to think — without rushing decisions

The content moves from conceptual clarity to concrete, actionable strategies, supporting families wherever they are in the process.

WHAT THIS COURSE IS NOT

  • Not a prescription for a single educational path

  • Not a push toward unschooling or staying in school

  • Not crisis-driven or fear-based

  • Not a judgment of past choices

This course is meant to support thoughtful decision-making over time.

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ABOUT THE CREATORS

Jenna Goldstein, MS/CAGS, Certified School Psychologist is an Autistic woman, school psychologist, and parent to neurodivergent children including one PDAer – the '3' perspectives of her practice, 'ND3'. Jenna brings a 360-degree view of children, families, and systems to her work.

After 15 years as a school psychologist in public schools, Jenna launched ND3 to offer counseling to children and teens, consultations with caregivers and professionals, and trainings for organizations that are uncompromisingly neuro-affirming and neuroscience-informed.

Rabbi Shoshana Meira Friedman is a PDA Autistic woman and proud mama of an unschooled PDA child who burnt out after a few years in school. She is the creator of the strengths-based PDA Safe Circle® Approach and founder of The PDA Safe Circle®, a transformative online community for PDAers and their loved ones.

After a previous career in Jewish congregational leadership and climate activism, she is now known for her in-depth content on PDA for all ages, and is a sought-after coach and trainer for clinicians, parents, and PDA adults.